Setting the Mood
In order to really enjoy the experience, you need to be totally relaxed and in an envoirnment where you don't have to worry about distractions. Take the phone off the hook, lock the door, play some soft music and do whatever it takes to make yourself comfortable before beginning. Taking a little time out for yourself is not selfish, though it may be difficult if you have children and/or a husband/boyfriend. Select a room in which you are comfortable. Most women use a bathroom or bedroom, but it can be anywhere you feel totally relaxed and comfortable.

Take Your Time
Masturbation need not be a hurried thing, in which you are frantically rubbing or humping yourself to orgasm as quickly as possible. In fact, you'll find that if you take your time and slowly tease, stimulate and caress yourself to orgasm, you're likely to have more intense, longer lasting orgasms.

Don't Be Afraid to Experiment
Let's start with the basic fact that no two women are alike. With so many different ways to masturbate, there are bound to be some that work for you and others that don't. Try new things, explore new fantasies and a whole new world of masturbatory pleasure can be yours.